When daughters react with annoyance or even anger at the smallest, seemingly innocent remarks, mothers get the feeling that talking to their daughters can be like walking on eggshells: they have to watch every word.

Deborah Tannen
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  1. We all want, above all, to be heard. We want to be understood–heard for what we think we are saying, for what we know we meant.
  2. Communication is a continual balancing act juggling the conflicting needs for intimacy and independence. To survive in the world we have to act in concert with others but to survive as ourselves rather than simply as cogs in a wheel we have to act alone.
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  5. I was one of those daughters who saw my mother as my enemy when I was a teen.
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